missing responsibilities

sometimes its happen we wants to do lot of things but fail .we make lots of plan to achieve our aim but fail again .its raises a question in our mind are we capable or cheating with ourself this question is also right on its place because of if we fail in executing plan then how can we think about success .success is not like t20 match but it is result of long term process .in fact we also know it then what is that which pushed into failure . as far as I consider it is our missing of our responsibilities we are not aware to our aim .other fact is it we live in this hallucination that we are doing well.